So Home Sick
Hi everyone! I can’t believe how easy it is to get onto the internet in Vila, if things are like this in Paama (highly unlikely) you’re likely to get updates every time I feel home sick. Still, at the moment that’s practically all the time! :0(
It sure has been a culture shock. I’ve been studying my Bislama and I’m so bad at learning languages! Still, there’s only 4000 words in the vocab so how hard could it be?
It’s Sunday at the moment and I woke up at 6.30AM so got to hear the church bells ringing at 7am. They rang again at 10am and 2pm, I’m just waiting to hear them again. :0)
Oh, by the way. Lopevi volcano (the one practically on top of Paama) is erupting. :0) Great news, huh? Still, if it were anything big I’m sure Charlie (the GAP contact) would have contacted us. So far we’ve only heard about the eruption from a local newspaper. I’ll let you know more details as I know them (great communication here, not!)
I don’t have Tom East’s address, or a few of my school friend’s. I also forgot Nanny and Pa and Grandma and Grandpa’s addresses, so they would be handy too. And Mum, I didn’t give you the cash passport details but I’ll email them to you when I’ve unpacked.
We went to Erakor Island today, but apart from that and the markets I haven’t done anything too touristy. It’s been really hard, I want to go out and explore everywhere, go on glass bottom boats, visit the rain forests and stuff but everyone else seems happy to bum. I’m sure we’ll have plenty of time later but at the moment it’s so frustrating!!!
Everyone got up at like 10am and I’d been up since 6.30, they also all really like to drink… I mean, I don’t mind alcohol but I don’t like getting drunk as a way of socialising. Anyway, that’s my little spew out of the way. I’ve been a little bit of a hermit, so I should probably make this quick and go spend some more time with them…
Anyway, there’s some more piccies here. I found a BP Alley! Now you can come and live here! :-P I’ve also attached a group photo of everyone, and I’ll see if I can remember all of their names from left to right: Hugh, me, Bec, Emma, Nat, Bec, Jo, Ali, Rosie and a girl whose name I can’t remember is taking the photo… her name starts with A??? How bad is that! I’d better put more effort into socialising.
Anyway, I’m really homesick, I’m really tired, everything is new and scary, I smell like the sea and I want nothing more than a familiar face right now, or at least something to do. I know it sounds like I’m having a terrible time but really it’s not too bad, the bad stuff is just so incredibly overwhelming!
Well, it’s off to Ngua tomorrow so I’ll see what happens with contacting you. I’m really keen to ring home soon Mum, and so I’ll probably give you the number at Paama as soon as I get there. Can’t describe how much I miss you all! Especially you Sarah, you have to come visit at the end of these months so we can do some real tourist stuff!!! Love you all to death!!!
Jess
PS. The other girl’s name is Dannie
PPS. Sorry, photos aren't working, I'll try again later :0(


3 Comments:
Hi Jess,
Don't worry about being so homesick! I'm also feeling a little lost and overwhelmed without you, I really miss our walks and talks! But don't worry, I'm about to go to my first day in the second sem of uni, I have digital media concepts and state power and society to keep me bored. Jess, don't think about making friends, just be yourself and you'll wonder why you ever worried. As for the drinking, they're all probably scared and anyway...isn't kava all they have on paama...and isn't it disgusting? And finally...the touristy stuff...don't be afraid, I deffinately want to save and visit and do tonnes of touristy stuff with you...but for the moment you can probably do some of the stuff on your own, as you said. The locals are really friendly. :-) Well...this is an extremley long comment...maybe I should write some stuff on my own blog...anyway, love you heaps and heaps! Hope to talk soon!
Lots of Love
Sarah
you'll be fine! in a couple of months you'll be so in love with the place, you won't want to come home!
When I left for Papua New Guinea, I had been married for 40 hours (!!!) and left my bride behind. It was really aweful, but heh, I got through that and we were reunited after six loooong weeks amd have been together now for nmearly 46 years.
I am with Sarah, just be Jess. You don't have to confirm to anyone else's values. It may well be that drinking is to hide their own feelings about a new country, new culture. BUT WAIT until you are in the village and among the people. You'll love it; take it from me.
We are praying for you every day, as promised.
As to our address, I'll send that by email as I don't like leaving contact details on the blog.
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